Life has taught us that we can never control someone's loyalty, no matter how loyal we are to them, it does not mean that they will be as good and loyal to us as we have always been to them. That no. No matter how much we value someone, it does not mean that they will value us as we have done in the past.
Sometimes the people we love and trust the most are the ones who destroy our trust the most. Having the opportunity to get to know someone is like trying to taste the taste of a relationship. So just being normal is not necessary, not too much love, too much loyalty, too much value, too much respect or too much expectation.
The deeper the relationship, the more painful it is because the trust we pay into a relationship, if it melts away, will hurt us even more. People can say that in a relationship it will grow or fall, it is on trust. We need to be honest but not stupid. We must believe, but not believe. The only people who can easily kill us are the ones we trust too much.
It is not difficult to find people to sit and listen to us tell stories, but the rare people in our lives are the ones who can understand our silence. After living twice for 10 years, I also learned some life lessons. In our most difficult situations, it is a good time to experience who really loves us the most and who just needs us to take advantage.
When we succeed, there is no shortage of people who come to know us, but when asked how many people have helped us from the beginning? The answer is no, because it can only count the number of fingers. It does not matter how many people we know, but it does matter how many people know us, and in this acquaintance we have helped each other wholeheartedly, not just for profit. On top of each other.