Creating a vision for the future you want provides a compass to guide you forward – what to steer toward and what to steer away from. As the old saying goes, if you don’t know where you’re going, you may end up someplace you don’t much like.
Ask for an introduction. Introduce yourself to an influencer. Offer your services. Get your finances in order. Ask for help. Learn a skill. Read a biography. Hire a coach. Join a group.
So you’ve got problems – the tough economy, a difficult boss, your company’s culture, unsupportive family, too little resources/education/experience/finances (or lack thereof).
Join the boat! It’s not your problems that keep you from creating what you want, it’s the story you tell yourself about them that provides you with an excuse to stay in your comfort zone.
5. Tell stories that expand possibilities (discard beliefs that don't). บอกเล่าเรื่องราวที่ขยายความเป็นไปได้ (ละทิ้งความเชื่อที่ไม่เป็นเช่นนั้น)
You don’t see the world as it is, but as you are. Accordingly, the words you use to describe your present, past, or future create the reality you inhabit. If you cast yourself as a helpless victim, you’ll be just that.
If you cast yourself as the master of your fate, you’ll be that too. You can’t change your history, but you can rewrite your story of it and in so doing, expand the possibilities for your future.
The past does not equal the future. Unless you live there.
Tony Robbins
อดีตไม่เท่ากับอนาคต เว้นแต่คุณจะอาศัยอยู่ที่นั่น
The red hot coals I walked on during the first evening of UPW were evidence of the power of belief. Tony's private planes and multibillion dollar business empire are testament to the power of his.
ถ่านร้อนแดงที่ฉันใช้ในช่วงค่ำวันแรกของ UPW เป็นหลักฐานที่แสดงถึงพลังแห่งความเชื่อ เครื่องบินส่วนตัวของ Tony และอาณาจักรธุรกิจมูลค่าหลายพันล้านดอลลาร์เป็นเครื่องพิสูจน์ถึงพลังของเขา
6. Flip fear into an ally. เปลี่ยนความกลัวเป็นพันธมิตร
Too often we cast fear as ‘the enemy’ when in fact, if fear wasn’t wired into our DNA we humans wouldn’t be here!
บ่อยครั้งที่เราโยนความกลัวเป็น 'ศัตรู' ทั้งที่ความจริงแล้ว ถ้าความกลัวไม่ได้เชื่อมโยงเข้าไปใน DNA มนุษย์เราก็คงไม่อยู่ที่นี่!
Rather than vilifying fear, we need to harness its energy and make it work for us. We can do that by focusing not on what might happen if we risk failing at achieving our goals and dreams, but how we will feel if we avoid the risk! Psychologists call this “Neuro-Associative Conditioning.”
Get really present to how it will cost you. Visualize yourself staring at yourself in a mirror 1, 5, 10, 25 years from now if you’ve let it continue to keep you from stepping up to the plate in your life and doing whatever it takes to achieve what you want. Fear regret more than failure.
All it takes to change your life is deciding it's time to step up and do just that. สิ่งที่ต้องทำเพื่อเปลี่ยนแปลงชีวิตของคุณคือการตัดสินใจว่าถึงเวลาแล้วที่จะต้องก้าวขึ้นมาทำสิ่งนั้น
7. Adjust course as you go. ปรับหลักสูตรตามที่คุณไป
Whenever you take a plane flight, most of the time it’s off course by a few degrees. It’s the micro adjustments the pilot makes en route that enable it to land in the right place. Likewise, keep your eye open for how you need to be adjusting your approach as you navigate your way from current Point A to desire Point B. If you aren’t getting the results you want, change what you’re doing. Anything else is a surefire recipe for landing a long way off course from your intended destination.
เมื่อใดก็ตามที่คุณขึ้นเครื่องบิน เวลาส่วนใหญ่มักจะอยู่นอกเส้นทางสองสามองศา มันคือการปรับแต่งเล็กน้อยที่นักบินทำระหว่างทางซึ่งช่วยให้สามารถลงจอดได้ถูกที่ ในทำนองเดียวกัน คอยดูว่าคุณต้องปรับเปลี่ยนวิธีการอย่างไรในขณะที่คุณนำทางจากจุด A ปัจจุบันไปยังจุด B หากคุณไม่ได้ผลลัพธ์ที่ต้องการ ให้เปลี่ยนสิ่งที่คุณกำลังทำอยู่ สิ่งอื่นใดคือสูตรสำเร็จสำหรับการลงจอดในระยะทางไกลจากจุดหมายปลายทางที่คุณตั้งใจไว้
“The results you get in life aren’t from one single decision, but from what you do after you make the decision.”
Successful people are always monitoring their progress, and continually adjusting what they are doing to produce better results in response to the changing environment around them. They also don't let setbacks and failures stop them. They learn the lessons, change their strategy, and press on.
When people reject you, you move on. It’s not personal, just par for the course of achieving anything worthwhile. While I've always just thought of this as being 'my best-self',
How can you look after your body better, in ways that optimize energy, process stress and sustain energy? What new habits can you nurture that replace old destructive habits of thought and behavior?
It’s the small things you do that few see which create the big results everyone wants. Below is a video I created with five rituals that I've found help me be in peak state!
Most people want to feel in control of their lives and able to make decisions based on a future they can predict with certainty. But let’s face it, no matter how much you may try to control your environment, you can’t. Life is inherently uncertain and any certainty you think you have (beyond death and taxes) is mere illusion.
Embracing life’s uncertainty liberates you to be decisive amid ambiguity and quicker to adjust your sails as the wind changes around you (rather than flipping out because it wasn’t in the weather forecast!)
If you aren’t deliberate in how you prioritize your time, other people’s priorities will consume it. So schedule in your "MUST DO" activities into your calendar – for exercise, family, reflection, planning and the rituals to achieve your 'peak state.' Assuming you’ll just find the time amid the busyness of your life is fanciful thinking.
So if the people you’re hanging out with aren’t bringing out your best and bravest, step out of your comfort zone and find people who will ; people who aren’t ready for settle for mediocrity and who want nothing less for you! Because, for better or worse, you can’t help but become more like the people you have surrounding you.
12. Be grateful for everything (even the crap!). รู้สึกขอบคุณสำหรับทุกสิ่ง (แม้แต่เรื่องไร้สาระ!)
Gratitude is the most powerful tonic for life yet too often we focus on what is missing from our lives and what we don’t have rather than on all that we do. It keeps us living in scarcity, fuels resentment, self-pity and a sense of powerlessness. So stand guard of your mind and when you catch yourself dwelling on what’s missing, refocus your attention on all that you already have. Because no matter how dire things may seem, there is always something to be grateful for.
Celebrating even the small things - from the winter sun to the summer heat (you're alive!), from your ability to read this article (many can't), to the roof over your head (that many would love), from your toddlers' tantrum to your teenagers untidy room (ah, the blessing of children) - can make a profound difference to both your health and happiness.
Cultivating gratitude amplifies the blessings in your life, fuels positive emotions and keeps you from making small problems big. People who have a habit of forever focusing only on what’s missing - what they can’t do, or don’t have - will always be miserable… no matter how much fame or fortune they have! Don't be one of them and if you have been, decide now to change that (and buy yourself a gratitude journal like Oprah uses!)
Because if there's one thing that was reinforced from my weekend with Tony Robbins, it's that all it takes to change your life is deciding that the time has arrived to step up and do just that.
เพราะถ้ามีสิ่งหนึ่งที่เสริมจากวันหยุดสุดสัปดาห์ของฉันกับ Tony Robbins สิ่งที่ต้องทำเพื่อเปลี่ยนชีวิตของคุณก็คือการตัดสินใจว่าถึงเวลาแล้วที่จะก้าวขึ้นมาทำสิ่งนั้น