1. Don't criticize, condemn, or complain. People do not like to feel criticized, so it is important to avoid negative criticism and complaining as much as possible.
2. Show sincere appreciation. People enjoy feeling appreciated and valued, so it is important to take the time to show genuine gratitude and recognition for their efforts.
3. Arouse in the other person an eager want. People are more likely to be persuaded by something they want or desire deeply, rather than something that is forced upon them.
4. Become genuinely interested in other people. The more you show interest in someone, the more they will be drawn to you and want to engage with you.
5. Smile. A smile can go a long way in making people feel comfortable and at ease.
6. Remember and use people's names. People appreciate being acknowledged by their name and it shows that you value them as an individual.
7. Be a good listener. Listening actively and attentively to someone makes them feel understood and appreciated.
8. Talk in terms of others' interests. If you want someone to be interested in what you have to say, make sure it appeals to their personal interests.
9. Make the other person feel important. People want to feel important and valued, so let them know that they matter to you.
10. Win people to your way of thinking. Instead of forcing your opinion on someone, try to use persuasive language that appeals to their interests and values.